July 25, 2003

Speed Dating

Well, I am finally getting around to doing something about the dating situation. I want, very much, to get out, meet people, and find my other half. I want to raise a good and happy family in a warm home. Doing that, however, requires getting out and meeting people, something I am not good at on any level other than a business one.

When it comes to females, I tend to freeze up, all shy and nervous. I’ve been working on it, and there have been some improvements.

A local restaurant has been hosting speed dating, and I thought I would give it a try despite the name. The name bothers me because of the implications. Not simply that the date itself would be short, but there is also a hint that other things, things where I really do prefer to take my time and do them right, will be short as well.

Last Thursday was okay, but it was also clear that several of the ladies taking part were ringers. That is, they were staff of the restaurant, friends of the staff, etc. Still, I did meet some nice people and enjoyed it. So, I went back last night and it was even worse. So bad was it that I cheerfully volunteered to drop out since there was only about one outside female taking part, maybe two. Frantic recruitment efforts were underway, and this was already 45 minutes past the advertised start time.

I will probably go back one more time if I can, but if it is no better I will be looking for other opportunities. Any suggestions, anyone?

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Posted by wolf1 at July 25, 2003 03:57 PM | TrackBack
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An online friend of mine -- in fact the Guy from Gaggle -- did the speed dating thing once. He seemed to enjoy it.

I'm not good at meeting people either. I signed up at Emode on a whim, and the first time I had the nerve to agree to contact with a guy, it turned out he was a pacifist! First phonecall he tells me there's never any justification for one human to kill another.

I haven't contacted any one else! It's very stressful and I think I'm just happy being a spinster! :)

Posted by: Ith at July 25, 2003 05:23 PM

Ouch! That is not a good start. I do understand about the stress, but the times it has worked for me have been wonderful. Hmmmm. Between this and some private stuff, think there may just be another blog coming on. Only thing I will say is that I just don't see you as a complete spinster. :)

Posted by: Laughing Wolf at July 25, 2003 07:19 PM

I'm pretty shy, which doesn't help. And I just remembered! I'm "merry"!

Heh heh

Posted by: Ith at July 25, 2003 08:50 PM

ROTFLMAO!

Posted by: Laughing Wolf at July 25, 2003 09:03 PM

2 words, dude: Yoga classes!

Posted by: Joe Katzman at July 27, 2003 07:00 AM

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