The Laughing Wolf

Grudges

Back in high school, I was chosen to take part in a National Science Foundation summer studies program on energy and national policy. Conducted by a professor at a nearby college, the program was fun, educational, and some of what I worked on tied into my interest and work with preparedness. A few small portions of our report/recommendations actually ended up in Carter's energy program. I do ask that you follow the spirit of the post and not hold that against me.

One of the outside speakers who came was a man from Marathon Oil. Older, possibly retired, he was the chosen representative sent to have a dialog with us on oil, the oil industry, and related topics. He was arrogant, condescending, obnoxious, and offensive. Even the professor was shocked. I think all of us stated our intention to never buy Marathon products, and to take an extra hard look at any information provided by Marathon or any other oil company.

In thirty some-odd years, I think I have knowingly bought Marathon products less than five times.

Each of those five times was because there was no other choice.

We won't go into personal grudges, save to note that I am even more stubborn.

Of late, I have had some reminders that sometimes it is good to let go. People change. Corporations change. The trick is to set aside the mores, the blinders of your own emotions and perspective to take an objective look to decide if they have changed for the better or the worse. If the change is for the better, be a better person and let go the past. Embrace and encourage positive change.

Not only will the other party benefit, but so will you.

LW